RELATIONSHIP OF SELF-COMPASSION AND EMPATHY IN FINAL YEAR GUIDANCE AND COUNSELING STUDENTS
JKPI: Jurnal Konseling Pendidikan Islam
P–ISSN: 2655-9692
E-ISSN: 2746-5977
Vol.7, No. 1, Januari 2026
RELATIONSHIP OF SELF-COMPASSION AND EMPATHY IN
FINAL YEAR GUIDANCE AND COUNSELING STUDENTS
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Aliva Karina Muyassar, 2Happy Karlina Marjo, 3Eka Wahyuni
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Universitas Negeri Jakarta
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Abstract
This study aims to see an overview of the relationship between the level of selfcompassion and empathy in final year students at the State University of Jakarta (UNJ)
and Sultan Ageng Tirtayasa University (UNTIRTA), and relate it to the urgency of the
role of Guidance and Counseling services in universities. The approach used was
quantitative descriptive, with a sampling technique using convenience sampling
techniques for the number of respondents as many as 110 students (55 from UNJ and 55
from UNTIRTA). This study aims to get an overview and relationship of self-compassion
and empathy in final year BK students. The instruments used are the Self-Compassion
Scale (SCS) and the Empathy Assessment Scale (EAS). The results showed that the
average self-compassion score in UNJ and UNTIRTA students was 75.64, with a
standard deviation of 7.069, which shows a relatively good and stable level of selfconcept in both universities. However, there is a striking difference in the level of
empathy. UNJ students have an average EAS score of 76.07 with a wide range (36–87),
while UNTIRTA students have a lower average EAS score, which is 56.53, with a
narrower range (46–61). As many as 86% of students are in the category of moderate
empathy, 9% low, and only 5% have high empathy. These findings suggest that although
final year students have a fairly good level of self-acceptance, empathic abilities have not
been optimally developed. This has important implications for guidance and counseling
services, namely the need to prepare intervention programs that are directed at
strengthening emotional awareness and empathy through individual, group, and socialemotional counseling.
Keywords: Self compassion, Compassion, Empathy, BK Students, Guidance and
Counseling
Abstrak
Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk melihat gambaran hubungan tingkat self-compassion dan
empati pada mahasiswa tingkat akhir di Universitas Negeri Jakarta (UNJ) dan
Universitas Sultan Ageng Tirtayasa (UNTIRTA), serta mengaitkannya dengan urgensi
peran layanan Bimbingan dan Konseling di perguruan tinggi. Pendekatan yang
digunakan adalah kuantitatif deskriptif, dengan teknik pengambilan sampel
menggunakan teknik convenience sampling jumlah responden sebanyak 110 mahasiswa
(55 dari UNJ dan 55 dari UNTIRTA). Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk mendapatkan
gambaran serta hubungan self compassion dan empati pada mahasiswa BK tingkat akhir.
Instrumen yang digunakan adalah skala Self-Compassion Scale (SCS) dan Empathy
Assesment Scale (EAS). Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa skor rata-rata selfcompassion pada mahasiswa UNJ dan UNTIRTA adalah 75,64, dengan standar deviasi
7,069, yang menunjukkan tingkat konsep diri yang relatif baik dan stabil di kedua
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perguruan tinggi. Namun, terdapat perbedaan mencolok pada tingkat empati. Mahasiswa
UNJ memiliki rata-rata skor EAS sebesar 76,07 dengan rentang yang luas (36–87),
sedangkan mahasiswa UNTIRTA memiliki skor rata-rata EAS lebih rendah, yaitu 56,53,
dengan rentang lebih sempit (46–61). Sebanyak 86% mahasiswa berada pada kategori
empati sedang, 9% rendah, dan hanya 5% yang memiliki empati tinggi. Temuan ini
menunjukkan bahwa meskipun mahasiswa tingkat akhir memiliki tingkat penerimaan diri
yang cukup baik, kemampuan empatik belum berkembang secara optimal. Hal ini
memberikan implikasi penting bagi layanan bimbingan dan konseling, yakni perlunya
penyusunan program intervensi yang terarah dalam penguatan kesadaran emosional dan
empati melalui konseling individual, kelompok, maupun pelatihan sosial emosional.
Kata kunci: Self compassion, Welas diri, Empati, Mahasiswa BK, Bimbingan dan
Konseling
INTRODUCTION
Students are a group of individuals who occupy the level of higher education and are in
an important transition period in life development, both intellectually, emotionally, and
socially. Anjani et al., (2025) defines that a college student is an individual who is tied to
a college, such as an academy, university, or institute. The same thing is explained by
Dwi Siswoyo, (2007) which explains that students are individuals who are studying at the
university level, both public and private, therefore students are expected to have high
intelligence in thinking and acting, independent and able to be responsible for all
decisions that have been chosen or in other words students can achieve the maximum
level of development in their time. Thus, during this transition period, there are changes
that occur in students such as physical, psychological, social, and emotional changes that
cause problems in the lives of individuals, especially related to their mental health
(Herdiansyah & Nurul Hanifah Puteri, 2023). In addition, Astuti et al., (2022) It also
revealed that the problems that arise in students, both academic and non-academic, are
supported by other internal factors such as independence and student readiness to
overcome the problems they are facing have decreased. Next (Mustafa et al., 2023) also
revealed that BK teachers' self-awareness and compassion have also been identified as
circumstances that can assist them in training and developing their counseling skills,
improving performance, and ultimately influencing the effectiveness of counseling
services provided by counselors to learners.
Furthermore, in the context of compassion, some previous studies have explained that the
sense of compassion that individuals have is associated with fewer negative emotions
including depression and anxiety, increased life satisfaction MacBeth & Gumley, (2012);
K. Neff, (2003), Increase happiness and optimism (Kristin D Neff et al., 2005; Kristin D.
Neff et al., 2007), as well as the use of emotion-focused adaptive coping strategies
(Kristin D Neff et al., 2005). In addition, Marshall et al., (2020) It also reveals that the
compassion that individuals possess tends to be positively related to cognitive empathy
or the ability to understand and connect with the suffering of others. This evidence is in
line with the theory of compassion from K. Neff, (2003) which defines compassion as a
healthy attitude towards the individual. Even compassion is theorized as "the ability to
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endure the emotions of suffering feelings with a sense of warmth and "caring" (Kristin D.
Neff & McGehee, 2010).
In the context of guidance and counseling, empathy is an important element in the success
of counseling practices as a whole. Through empathy, counselors can better understand
the psychological dynamics and issues faced by counselors in depth (Julius, Nurlatifah,
Alfaiz, & Nadya, 2022). The same thing is explained by Narti et al., (2023) That by
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